The Dating Profile Red Flag Checklist
Stop second-guessing matches. 22 red flags, 10 green flags, and a scoring guide — all in one 9-page checklist. $9.99.
Stop second-guessing. Start reading people clearly.
Most dating advice tells you to trust your gut. This checklist gives your gut something solid to work with.
34 red flags across three stages of dating — plus a guide to the exact excuses people use to dismiss warning signs they’ve already seen. Use it before every match, every conversation, and every first date.
What’s Inside
- 🚩 12 Profile Red Flags — the signs most people rationalize away before a single message is sent, with a clear explanation of why each one matters
- 💬 10 Conversation Red Flags — behavior patterns in early messaging that reveal real intent before emotions get involved
- 📍 12 First Date Red Flags — in-person signals that show up when the performance drops: phone behavior, how they treat staff, how they handle a small “no”
- 🧠 The Rationalization Trap — 8 common excuses people make for red flags they’ve already noticed, and the truth behind each one
- 📊 Scoring Guide — tally your results across all three sections and get a clear action step: proceed, proceed with caution, or move on
Who This Is For
This checklist is for anyone serious about finding a real relationship and tired of wasting time on people who aren’t. If you’ve ever ignored a red flag and regretted it — or spent weeks convincing yourself a pattern wasn’t really a pattern — this gives you a clear, objective system to trust.
It’s not about being suspicious. It’s about being informed before you’re invested.
The Dating Profile Red Flag Checklist
34 checklist items · 3 sections · Rationalization Trap guide · Instant PDF download
$9.99
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