The Green Flag Dating Playbook
38 green flags across four sections — profiles, conversation, actions, and how to be a green flag yourself — with a scoring guide so you know what the pattern means.
Most dating advice tells you what to avoid. This tells you what to pursue.
Knowing what a red flag looks like gets you so far. But it doesn't tell you what you're actually looking for — what genuine readiness, honest intent, and real connection look like in someone's profile, in early conversation, and in person.
That's what this playbook is for.
38 green flags across four sections, with a scoring guide that helps you read the full picture — not just avoid the wrong people, but recognize the right one.
What's Inside
- 🟢 8 Green Flags in Profiles — specificity, warmth, and forward-facing energy that signal someone emotionally ready and worth pursuing
- 🗣️ 10 Green Flags in Conversation — active listening, consistent follow-through, and the move from digital to real that separates genuine interest from entertainment
- ⚡ 10 Green Flags in Actions — how someone actually shows up in person, after the first date, and when life gets complicated
- ✨ 10 How to Be a Green Flag Yourself — a self-assessment for becoming the kind of person emotionally healthy, serious partners are drawn to
- 📊 Scoring Guide — 38 items with interpretation ranges so you know what the pattern means and what to do with it
Who This Is For
This playbook is for anyone who's done filtering out the wrong people and ready to start recognizing the right ones. If you've ever let a good match slip because you weren't sure what you were looking at — or wondered why you keep attracting the wrong people despite doing everything right — this gives you a clear framework for both sides of that problem.
Use it alongside the Dating Profile Red Flag Checklist for a complete picture: what to run from, and what to run toward.
The Green Flag Dating Playbook
38 checklist items · 4 sections · Scoring guide · Instant PDF download
$14.99
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